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Associate

Flannery Blair

she/they

I want therapy to be a grounded, nonjudgmental space where all parts of you are welcome, and where the work moves at a pace your body can actually keep up with.

SESSIONS:

In-person + Telehealth

WORKS WITH:

Individuals, Couples, Polycules

AGES:

Teens, Adults

Get to know me

I want therapy to be a grounded, nonjudgmental space where all parts of you are welcome. That includes parents raising autistic or gender-nonconforming kids, people in polyamorous or non-traditional relationships, and anyone whose life doesn't fit a standard mold, whether by choice or circumstance.



I draw from Internal Family Systems, EMDR, Emotionally Focused Therapy, Narrative Therapy, Solution-Focused Therapy, Polyvagal Theory, an approach that focuses on how the nervous system's state shapes a person's sense of safety, and Gottman Method, to work with complex trauma, neurodivergence, bipolar disorder, and identity exploration, including kink-affirming care that treats consensual, non-traditional relationship and sexual structures as simply part of a client's life rather than something to interrogate. I'm also a registered yoga teacher and trauma-informed yoga facilitator, which sometimes finds its way into how I think about grounding and the body in session. I hold a Certified Autism Specialist credential in addition to my clinical training.



I'm supervised by Margaret MacLeod, LMFT, an AAMFT Approved Supervisor, which means the range of specialized modalities I draw on is backed by dedicated clinical oversight, not just personal training. I'm completing my clinical hours toward full LMFT licensure and hold an AAC credential in addition to my clinical training.



I'm a good fit for a parent raising an autistic or gender-nonconforming child, or someone in a polyamorous or kink-affirming relationship, looking for a trauma-informed associate clinician in Tacoma or across Washington state who won't need the basics of any of that explained first.



Request a session or start an intake form when you're ready. If you want to know more about how I work with a specific population before booking, a quick question first is always a fine way to start. I work with individuals, couples, polycules, and families, so the shape of who's actually in the room can vary quite a bit from one intake to the next, and that flexibility is intentional.

Healing begins with understanding and acceptance of what is.

Areas of focus

Neurodivergence

Identity exploration

Polyamory & non-traditional relationships

Parts work (IFS) & somatic healing

EMDR & Flash Technique

Bipolar disorder

LGBTQIA2S+ affirming

Kink-affirming care

Men's Issues

Training & Credentials

M.A.

Couple & Family Therapy

Pacific Lutheran University

B.A.

Integrative Biology

University of California, Berkeley

LMFTA

Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist Associate

Washington State

IFS Training

50+ hours advanced, including trauma treatment with Dr. Frank Anderson

Training

EFIT Levels 1 & 2, Gottman Levels 1 & 2, Polyvagal Theory

Certification

RYT-500 and TCTSY-F (trauma-sensitive yoga)

2025

Certified Autism Specialist, EFCT Levels 1 & 2

In Progress

Hakomi Method Training

Supervision

Practicing under Margaret MacLeod, LMFT

2026

EMDR Basic Training

Session details

Session Fee

$175

Session Length

53 min

In Person

Tacoma office

Telehealth

WA Statewide

Insurance

United Healthcare, Wellpoint, Molina (Medicaid & Medicare), Community Health Plan of WA, Aetna, Tricare West (USFHP, TriWest VA), Cigna, First Choice Health Insurance, Kaiser PPO (Access PPO only), Premera, Regence, Medicare Part B

Good fit for

Complex trauma

LGBTQIA2S+

Kink

Men's Issues

Neurodivergence

Polyamory

Somatic & parts work

If you are interested in working with

Flannery

Please fill out our short intake form and our care coordinators will follow up within one business day to confirm fit, schedule, and next steps.

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Programming Editor

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Tess Anderson

Art Director

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